Are you feeling overwhelmed by the thought of potty training? You’re not alone. Many parents feel a mix of excitement and anxiety when they consider ditching the diapers. The good news is that your potty training journey doesn’t have to be a battle. It can be a natural, joyful process when you and your child are truly ready.
At Upchild, we’ve helped countless families navigate this milestone with confidence, and we’re here to support you too, starting as early as 15-18 months. We believe in a gentle, child-led approach that focuses on your child’s emotional and physical readiness.
Timing is Everything: Is My Toddler Ready?
The most common mistake parents make is starting too early. While your friend’s child may have started at 15 months, your little one may not be ready until they’re closer to two. Paying attention to the signs of readiness is the most important step in your potty training journey.
Look for these key indicators:
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- Physical Signs: Your child has longer stretches of being dry and can stay dry through naps. They might also show a desire to pull their own pants up or down.
- Cognitive Signs: They can follow simple instructions and show interest in the toilet. They might hide to do a poop or show you when their diaper is wet.
- Emotional Signs: They express a desire for independence and want to do things themselves.
Starting when your child is ready makes the entire potty training journey smoother and more successful.
Tips for a Smooth and Positive Potty Training Journey
Starting your potty training journey can feel like a big step – but with the right strategies and a calm, consistent approach, it can also be fun and empowering for both you and your little one.
Here are some tried-and-true tips to help your child build confidence and independence through every stage of potty training:
1. Build Potty Awareness
Begin by helping your toddler understand the connection between their body signals and the potty. When they start to recognise the urge to go, use simple, consistent words like “pee-pee time” or “potty time.” This helps them associate the feeling with the action.
Try bringing your child to the potty at predictable times each day – after waking up, after meals, or before bath time. A simple routine chart can help your toddler see what comes next and build a sense of predictability.
You can also make potty time engaging by reading potty-themed books like Daniel Tiger Uses the Potty for younger ones or watching short videos together like Ms Rachel’s potty Training Special for older ones. This not only builds interest but normalises the process.
2. Create a Toddler-Friendly Setup
Make sure your child’s potty is comfortable and easy to use. A toddler-sized potty chair or a secure seat on the big toilet with a step stool can make all the difference.
Encourage your child to try small tasks like pulling down their pants, sitting on the potty, or wiping – even if it’s not perfect. Celebrate the effort with positive affirmations such as,
“You’re doing it all by yourself — well done!”
Visual schedules are especially helpful at this stage. We have made one for you to use at home. Simply download and print it out. Use one to show each step of the process – sitting, wiping, flushing, and washing hands – to reinforce predictability and independence. End each routine by washing hands together and celebrating progress.
3. Normalise Accidents
Accidents are a normal and important part of the potty training journey. When they happen, stay calm and kind. Gently involve your child in the cleanup process – not as punishment, but as a way to help them understand what happens when they miss the potty.
You can ask simple reflective questions like,
“Did it feel wet? Was it warm?”
This helps your child connect sensations to actions. Use supportive language such as,
“That’s okay, accidents happen. We’ll try again next time.”
It’s also a good idea to always have a backup outfit handy for outings or daycare. Teach your child phrases like “I didn’t make it in time,” or “Mama, help please,” to encourage communication and confidence when things don’t go as planned.
4. Transition to Real Underwear
Once your child can stay dry on small outings and consistently use the potty – including for poop – it’s time to make the big move to real underwear!
This milestone is about more than just practicality – it’s a symbol of your child’s growing independence. Choose comfortable, high-quality underwear that allows your child to feel wetness but keeps them comfortable.
We love these adorable sets, designed for comfort and fun: (Enjoy 15% off when you quote “UPCHILD”)
👧 Girls’ Undies (Set of 3)
👦 Boys’ Trunks (Set of 3)
Our Potty Training Classes: Your Complete Guide
We know that every child’s potty training journey is unique, and you need a plan that’s tailored to your family. Our comprehensive 90-minute potty training classes are designed to guide you from start to finish.
Here’s what you’ll get:
- A proven, gentle approach that reduces stress for everyone.
- Step-by-step guidance on how to start, troubleshoot, and stay consistent.
- 1-1 Expert support to answer your questions and keep you on track.
Ready to start your potty training journey with confidence?
Every child’s journey is unique – and you don’t have to do it alone.
Join our Potty Training Class for $50, and receive a 20-minute 1:1 call with Angela for customised support, practical tools, and reassurance as you guide your little one through this important stage.